I had NO idea that 90% if the posts I make end up in "stupid people" communities.
Im really a normal person. Doing normal things. Im not a drug addict, I dont drink, I dont party. I take care of a house, a husband, 2 small children (YEAH THEYRE A YEAR APART OMG), and 2 dogs (OMG ONE OF THEM IS A FUCKING PITBULL). Yes, I cook for my husband, every night. I cook because I dont want to have pop tarts for dinner. I cook because I love my husband. I cook because I like to. I clean my house because Im proud of it. My husband does basic chores and helps with kids. Can I ask for more? Probably. I could tell him to skip the gym and come right home. But I dont, BECAUSE HES IN THE MILITARY AND ITS A PART OF HIS JOB TO STAY IN SHAPE. I know some of you idiots have me listed on your "friends" page. Do me a favor and delete me if you dont know me. Thats exactly it, you DONT know me.
I ask some really stupid questions sometimes. Thats because not a lot of people my age are married and have kids. Ive never fucking done this before. Sometimes I get overwhelmed.
So if you feel the need to talk to me, my email is email@example.com
Harass me there. Please.
If you think Im being abused by my husband Im not. He doesnt keep me inside doing chores all day. Promise. He also doesnt yell at me or hit me. The only people Ive been abused by is YOU. FUcking fucktards. Ive had this journal for SO SO SO long, and Im forced to delete it because Ive been harassed to the point of tears. Thanks guys
If you really have nothing better to do, then go along, keep harassing me. I wont be here. I made a new name. Im going to keep to myself.
So if you have came here to lurk, congrats. You have made me feel sketchy about posting anywhere on LJ. You are officially an intarwebz police. There is no reason for you to be here, other than to justify yourself. I have removed all of my personal info because you have threatened to report me. I never said I dont pay rent with my BAH, my mother will back me up saying I have paid her in full the amount she wishes every month.
I take care of my son, who is healthy, happy and 'advanced'. My mother has not had him in his care for more than 8 hours at a time, and that only happened once. My husband had just got home for basic training xmas break and we got a hotel from 9 pm to 8 am. I dont put him in day care, I am a stay at home mother who enjoys days with her son. My mother watches him for maybe a half hour a day while I pee/take a shower/what have you. She enjoys time with him and vice versa.
I dont spend ridic amounts of money on anything. I spent less than a hundred dollars on my son and husband for xmas. I do however, buy things I need like underwear and shoes. I do not take advantage of food stamps (I refuse to call them anything else, thats what they are). I redport everything my husband makes. We just now stopped recieving them, from a transitional program they offer. I do not recieve WIC, or anything like it. I pay out of pocket for his formula and buy him slightly used clothing at swaps and used clothing stores. I buy him name brand diapers, and wipes, because he has sesnsitive skin.
Its my choice to have another child. Its none of your business how she came to be though. There is no reason to feel pity for my children. They have a bank account with monedy in it and a college fund already. I did not plan to have another child for a few yearfs but it happened. And I welcome it fully. If you have redad thru my journal, you may see that I have had an abortion in the past. Its not something Ill ever do again. I was on heavy drugs and not in a place to have a. Baby. Now that my husband is in the Army, I think its a great time to have children, but like I said we wont be having anymore, I am considering long term birth control. Not that its any of your business.
either way, I take carfe of my family with the help of a few others. Technically I am a single mother. Its hard but we get bhy. My finances and what I spend on rent and what I do give my mother for rent arent your business. I will be removing communities from my page, and cutting back on posting to communities. I love LJ, and will continue to use it but moderately.
It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 6 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes at at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools.
RIP Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh (top) RIP Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase (middle) RIP Asher Brown and Billy Lucas. (bottom)
REBLOG to spread a message of love, unity and peace.
Day 01 → Your favourite song Day 02 → Your favourite movie Day 03 → Your favourite television programme Day 04 → Your favourite book Day 05 → Your favourite quote Day 06 → Whatever tickles your fancy Day 07 → A photo that makes you happy Day 08 → A photo that makes you angry/sad Day 09 → A photo you took Day 10 → A photo of you taken over ten years ago Day 11 → A photo of you taken recently Day 12 → Whatever tickles your fancy Day 13 → A fictional book Day 14 → A non-fictional book Day 15 → A fanfic Day 16 → A song that makes you cry (or nearly) Day 17 → An art piece (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.) Day 18 → Whatever tickles your fancy Day 19 → A talent of yours Day 20 → A hobby of yours Day 21 → A recipe Day 22 → A website Day 23 → A YouTube video Day 24 → Whatever tickles your fancy Day 25 → Your day, in great detail Day 26 → Your week, in great detail Day 27 → This month, in great detail Day 28 → This year, in great detail Day 29 → Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days